teenager's mirror

i look into the mirror and all i see is a pimple which was not there yesterday then suddenly i notice my tummy is looking protruding and oh my god! my legs- i hate my thighs they are so fat :(
why a teenager hates the girl she sees in  the mirror yet she spends majority of her time in front of the mirror.
spend some time with a teenager or any girl(not a woman) and 70% of the time she is gonna tell how much she dislike her face her looks her body, she just cant stop cribbing about  it. why we have to look our best everyday, why we have to look better than other girls of the class, and what will change if we dont look our best or we look a little grungy or out of shape?
im a teenager and i know what a big stress it is to dress up for the college, you open your cupboard and cant find a single piece to wear and all you have in mind is "i have no clothes to wear"(though your cupboard is full of clothes). Whenever we go shopping we pick up dresses keeping in mind what our peers gonna say about it.. will my boyfriend like it? has my friend seen me in this colour before? will i look better than that hottie?
why style comes before comfort? why we still prefer those stilettos over that comfy flats knowing the fact that our legs gonna hurt very bad...
are looks so important? is latat mangeshkar beautiful? or sachin tendulkar? or mother teressa? but people love them no matter how they look because beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. so alter that red dress and put on those comfy flats which makes you smile and relaxed because when you are happy from heart you look beautiful..
and remember your looks dont matter to anyone neither to those who love you because they'll love you no matter how you look nor to those who dont love you coz even if  you look like a princess they cnt start loving you..
 if a person loves you coz of your looks you are better without them coz they will go away with your fading looks so love yourself, your body coz your life is not dependent on your looks...
so love that pimple of yours coz its yours...

A beginning

we always welcome a new year with open arms n wish everyone a new n prosperous year ahead but y only limit it to beginning of the year only or to be precise only 1st Jan we rarely wish on 2nd, hardly on 3rd n only by mistake or by formality on 4th.Why we say that we will change in the new year? y we wait for the new year to make a resolution n stick to them? why is a fresh beginning dependent on a date?Why we wait for the clock to strike 12 on 31st dec? Why is 1st Jan given this privilege when every day is the first day of the coming year only because the calendar says 1st Jan-31Dec is the new year , y not 5th Mar-4th Mar or say 1Aug-31July?

i say today is the 1st day of my coming year which is from 4/1/2012-3/1/2013 just to make 3rd n 4 happy (they feel so left out..poor days) you also can choose your own special year not necessarily the one beginning with 1st jan it can begin from 31 Dec also. The best part of choosing your own new year is that you can start afresh anyday like i started my new year on 11th dec 2011 with a promise that each day of my coming year would be a memory to cherish but i ended up wasting my vacations though it was also a gud memory but not the kind i planned to have, so my new year began from 30 dec 2012 n since that day my everyday is different n better than the previous one.

So tell yourself you dont need to wait for 1st Jan to cleanup that cupboard you are avoiding for so long, or giving up smoking or even something as common as getting back to your exercise routine you planned but couldnt follow for more than 10days so pickup your calendar n tell yourself that hey tomorrow is a new day, a new year, a new beginning.  So choose a new year with the aim that in coming year we will put in all our efforts such that the "least happy day of the coming year is happier than the most happy day of the last year". So choose your new year, a new beginning that we all wait for .....
by the way......
HAPPY NEW YEAR 2012....:)